The Feast of St. John Paul II
St. John Paul II’s words, “We are not the sum of our weaknesses and failures; we are the sum of the Father’s love for us,” initially felt like an inspiring ideal to me, having grown up in a loving environment. However, as I navigated my 30s and faced what society considers setbacks – lagging behind in my career, struggling to find my vocation, and not achieving milestones like starting a family or buying a house – these words transformed into a personal prayer of comfort and assurance.
In the context of rising feminism and changing gender roles in the 1980s, St. John Paul II wrote the Apostolic Letter "Mulieris Dignitatem" ("On the Dignity and Vocation of Women"), which has profoundly blessed and guided me. He emphasised that every woman is entrusted with the gift of life, not only in the physical sense but through the care and love we extend to others – a kind of “motherhood according to the spirit.” Spiritual motherhood has taught me that I can offer service and support through the roles I’ve embraced – whether in friendships, ministry, or workplace – even without having raised a child of my own.
What truly sets St. John Paul II apart is his joyful spirit and encouragement to live with enthusiasm. He was known for his warmth and love for sports, connecting with people through hiking, skiing, and singing. He urged us not to be weighed down by life's challenges but to embrace joy, celebrate life, and maintain a light-hearted perspective.
As I reflect on the life of St. John Paul II and his passionate homilies, I am reminded of his youthful mindset. Youth is not merely a matter of biological age; it is a mindset filled with hope and a willingness to try again – to be redeemed! St. John Paul II’s feast day inspires me to celebrate these truths with hope and joy. I am not defined by what I have or haven’t achieved; I am defined by love – God’s love. In the waiting, the setbacks, and the joys, I can choose to live fully, trusting that God’s love is more than enough to fill the gaps in my life.